She looked at me, clearly trembling. Then she delved into her purse and took out an old picture. Silently, she handed it to me.
She whispered, “It’s Peter and his twin brother, James.”
There they were, two small infants, quite similar, side by side. My eyes got big.
“I was never informed by Peter that he had a twin.”
Margaret let out a long sigh as she gazed down.
“He’s not sure. Days after their birth, James passed away. I was unable to bring myself to talk about it. It hurt too much.
Then she said something that made me shiver as she turned to face Ethan.
“Return to me; I think Ethan is James. I sense it in my spirit.
I was taken aback. What would I say in response to that?
In that instant, I understood that although she had a genuine love for Ethan, her pain had never really gone away, and it was now influencing the way she perceived my child.
I told Peter everything that night. When he discovered he had once had a twin, he was equally surprised.
After a long pause, he replied, “We have to help Mom.”
We sat down with Margaret the following day and gently stated that she needed to talk to someone, a therapist, about her background and her sadness if she wanted to stay close to Ethan.
“We sympathize with your suffering,” Peter said to her, “but you must begin to let go of the past.”
She consented, much to our relief.
It wasn’t an easy journey. Old wounds were reopened via therapy. But gradually, her hold relaxed and her affection for Ethan took on a more wholesome form.
I eventually regained my trust in her. And at last, I saw the kind of grandmother I had hoped Ethan would have: kind, balanced, and present.
Every family faces challenges, but connections may become stronger than ever with openness, empathy, and a desire to mend.
Margaret started to recover. and our family followed suit.
